Let us start by acknowledging that there is good in everyone and habits we adapt while living the life whether is good ones or bad ones. Not everyone is toxic by default but only the mentally ill being born with difficulties. Everyone goes through bad experiences and sometimes those experiences traumatized us. Without the guidance and support from those bad experiences, we can go through life reflecting what had happened to us. Understanding a person history is a good place to start before judgement takes root in your heart. Keep in mind that no one is perfect and sometimes it requires lifting someone from his or her circle of grief and darkness into a good way of life.
You can tell a lot about a person when you have conversations with them, especially when they talk negatively about others they supposed to care for. Be careful whom you trust with your secrets & whom you exposed your weakness to, because they can give way for a poisonous tongue to discredit your character & destroy your quality of life among others. Curiosity and proceeding with caution should always remain a priority when surrounded with many different personalities of an envious spirit.
GREAT NEWS, You are worth more than the price tag placed in your back by hidden snakes in your garden.
Your life should be fruitful & only with the people who are willing to support, love and respect your desires for a better life. Toxic people have a disloyalty characteristic and cannot be trusted with your best interest in mind for happiness. Don’t waste time waiting for change if effort is not in place, instead take notice that change come with effort & if no effort is found to be part of that equation, move yourself far away from the actions of those destructive behaviors. Remember, when a person become unhappy with oneself, his/her unhappiness can poison your good spirit if trusted with your happiness unless your support become his/her effort to change. It can get difficult at times when letting go after given a person so many chances & most of the time it becomes the best choice after realizing you have done all your best to help.
~ Jesus Apolinaris